Thursday, August 25, 2011

What Today Did Not Change

One year ago today, I lost a friend and fellow servant. I spent most of the night and following days at the hospital with the family that we had come to know through a Divine appointment. I clearly remember Marianne spending her last afternoon working in the preschool room with Shannon at our small store-front in the mall. Her eagerness to serve others and love for God was evident even on her last day with us. That day one year ago, changed a lot of things.

But there are some things that it did not change:
  • It did NOT change my mission. I have little doubt that Marianne truly believed that the greatest offer that a person could make to someone else was to invite them to follow Christ. Though she is not here, my mission is still to give everyone, every where, every reason to want to follow Jesus.
  • It did NOT change my resolve. It was a big blow to me, my wife, and everyone in our young church. Not to mention her family. She left a big hole. But like Paul, we press on. No greater honor could we show to Marianne than to continue with the work that she played a role in starting.
  • It did NOT change my faith in God. He knows that life is often filled with curves that are sometimes hard to navigate. Yet, he knows our struggles and stands near us with a comforting hand reminding us that he is still near. (Lamentations 3:22-23 Because of the LORD’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.) The world is constantly changing but my faith rests in a God that does not change (Heb. 13:8)
Today reminds me that each day brings me one day closer to my last. May I live each one well.

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Redefining Success (Sunday Recap 8/21/11)


Everyone wants to be successful. However, very few people even know what that means! Most people would likely define success in terms of their bank account or point to some of the things they own. Some might feel successful when their name gets recognized by others in their industry or if they have over 1000 twitter followers. Still others feel successful after they have accomplished a goal and have the picture to prove it. But there is a problem with these definitions: they always put us on a tredmill that saps a lot of energy but never really takes us anywhere.

You see, if you define success by the $, you will soon realize that $ will soon not make you as happy and now it will take $$. Then $$$. You get the picture. You may feel unsuccessful when you don't get the recognition you feel you deserve. Unsuccessful when you get "de friended" on Facebook. One great achievement is shadowed by the next and higher is always better. Pretty soon, with every beat of our heart come the words: more, more, more.

Even for a pastor, it is easy to get lost in the many definitions of success that compete for our attention. Many times in the church we look at two things: attendance and giving to define success for us. Over the years, I've seen this first hand and honestly I've been guilty at times. Tossing around numbers and figures while trying to look successful and at other times criticizing those who did it because their numbers and figures made me feel unsuccessful. Like my dad always used to tell me during a batting slump, "you will always lose at the game of comparison because there is always someone out there with better numbers than you. So just keep swinging."

I am so thankful that God does not hold us to that definition of success. His idea of success is very simple and straightforward. You can see it in Joshua 1. Here we find Joshua dealing with the pressure of being successful because he was following the most "successful" man to ever lead the nation of Israel, Moses. Moses had done it all but now he was dead and it was Joshua's turn to lead. Joshua thought of Moses' success only in terms of results but God had to remind him of the real cause of Moses' greatness.

In Joshua 1:7 the Lord says, "Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the law...that you may be successful wherever you go." The Lord goes on to tell him that if Joshua would follow the Divine instructions that were given him, he would be prosperous and successful. The real definition of success is simply being obedient to God and his commands.

My prayer is that we would dump all those definitions that cause worry, nervousness, fear, discouragement, anger, resentment, and regret, and start living by the definition that God gives us. When we simply obey God's Word it is amazing how satisfied and fulfilled our souls become.